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I invite you for a special travel TREASURE BOOK Meeting beautiful with good BEST OF Success & Happiness A global guide to life Available with many languages Health, Energy, Power, Money, Creativity, Peace&Love Best and better informations Wisdoms & Proverbs Poems & Songs All rights reserved 0-06-01-9931-978 (ISBN) DL 3025 /2012 “Today is the first day for the rest of your life!” Achieve your goals now! Dedicate To the nice people, to all friends around the world After long hard work, searches and travels around the world. WARM WELCOME! From country of sun &beauty A beautiful bouquet of flowers to you Hi,my name is Taibi,I thank you for choice this treasure World book which will enter your mind and heart.This great book will feel you so happy and helps you in your life and in your enter in your self Joy, delectation and pleasure. Beautiful words Honesty,Truth,trust,believe,peace,love,faith, polite,nicepeople,nicefriends.good luck ! Smile… Enjoy… Amazingly, that most of us live on the margins of existence a monotonous, boring life, move automatically, and do not allow anything, kill us stress, anxiety, frequency, deprivation ... Because we succumb to any ideas and traditions we have inherited and although it has been revealed by God, and thus you see us sanctify and annihilate the appeal of common sense in us, a killing negligence and inattentive overcook, we humans,we are not angels and we hate to be the devils and we did not disturb our lives and oursouls joy. The secrets of life are affordable to anybody.Theyare not brought from overseas. We all seek happiness, but happiness does not stem only from within our souls. Generally speaking, the most successful man in life " Is the man who has the most preferable and the best information" Dr. Benjamin « If the person is able to write a book better than the ones he wrote or to preach in a better way, then builds his house in the remote wilderness People will flock to him to receive knowledge » Dr. Ralph Emerson In this world ... You have to manufacture your own luck by yourself,so move to make your luck! It is known to all of us that we have personal targets to achieve in life whether material or moral, and the largest battles of life are those that man leads in his struggle against himself. We, humans, live a life of persecution, movement ... speed ... especially since we are in the era of speed and Informatics… When considering this deep question, when you think about and are aware of yourself, you understand that you have the ability to change thoughts, feelings, and behavior and change the relationships and goals. We are able to control these things.Many people do not understand this. Therefore, they happen to fail because they do not think about their feelings or their behavior or even their relationships. They do not originally think about these issues. They imagine they are imposed on them.In this, « You need only one hour to change your life ». So, we will identify the sciencewhich can help you in your daily life towards success and happiness. The authorSteven Ondrassays: NLP, Neuro Linguistic Programmingis the study of human excellence ... and the ability to do your best more and more ... It is the mighty and scientific way that leads to personal change ... It is the new technology of achievement ». The peace of heart, and its delight and the demise of its concerns and its distress, is the quest for each one toachieve a good life, be happy and cheerful. The reasons therefore are natural and practicalcauses. Start a day with a positive card and good feelings by programming your conscious mind. Take a deep breath and read your message positivily: - I smile easily ... - Iam a great listener ... - I love people and Ipreciate being with them... - I love myself unconditionally ... - I am an excellentman of communication ! - My case getting better and better, day after day, in all respects. - I control my judgments and my emotions easily. - My memory is strong ! - I can refrain from smoking. - I'm active and enjoy a powerful energy. - I believe in myself and my abilities to succeed. Make a note of these affirmations and read them daily and you will see the results... Your outlook on life... What do you want? Why do I not change? Am I happy? Why do I behave like this? Who am I? What do you want? (Not now). Think a little after ten years, 15 years, 20 years ... Do you find yourself satisfied with what you are or would you rather be better than this situation and if you prefer it, so why do not you change? Are thereactions youexercise and you hating themwheneveryou did it ? Why did you behave this way? The deeperquestion everyoneasks himselfwhen he is alone ... Am I happy? What's the thing that human is looking for in the end? Looking for happiness? Human will be provided with all that is needed of potential material, buildings, factories, cars, etc... But is he happy? When you are on your own, do you feel comfortable? Or feel sorrow? The man does not know which way to choose. It is an issue larger than science; it is an issue of feeling, an issue ofwillingness to move on human behavior. The main question is: Who am I? Who are you? Originally, what is the reason of your being on earth? What is the aim of your life? Exclusivity. Meaning you. At the moment you were trying to be someone else, you lost the basis and spirit for success. And human findshimself on the edge of life. He cannot succeed unless he understands somethinggreat...If he knew himself and knew his abilities,self-knowledge and capabilities. When a person knows herself, knows her abilities, then the footsteps of the first serious honest step towards success ... How does this happen? We, parents are playing an unusual role, since we mismanage our children by hasting their stages maturity. Let us think together on this basiswhich will be a major reason towards success. When a human is born,he naturally is dependent on others for his eating, his drinking, his clothing and education even on the way of behaving. Herelies too much on others. This is what constitutes his life. What is meant here is another person who manages his life. Self-independence I He begins maturing and depending on himself whenever he comes up to this stage and this varies from family to family and from circumstance to circumstance ... There are some children who reach the stage of self-independence at an early age : 12 years, 15 years, 25 years old and even 30 years old ... And others 50 years. This latter cannot still be independent. He still relies on others: father, mother, husband, or wife, may be a group he loves and who are the ones who determine his path in life; he still is dependent on others. Then,a human does not become mature unless he moves from dependence on others to independence on himself all along this stage,over the delayed success. Then, there is no success as long as your child depends upon you. The sooner he emerges to self- independence, the sooner the success. As long as the boy orgirl remains dependent on others,the success will be delayed accordingly. But the real success does not come haphazardly but comes when man moves to the third stage. Independence We The matter of maturity is seldom. We imagine that success is when a human depends on himself, while meditating on history and even various success studies pointout to amajor key principle (man does not succeed by himself). Every youngster wants to pave his way by his effort, by his mind, by himself.This is possible. I need you and you need me You may need someone who is younger than you. It does not matter if you need this man. The problem of people who achieveself-independencebecome,sometimes,self-conceited. This self-conceits which makes him feel hedoes not need anybody is the summit of weakness. The Summit of maturity is that human knowshe is planned what he has been created for and youhave abilities which are not similar to others, and vice versa there is nothing wrong to ask my son or employees on something I do not know and what is more serious is to pretend to be knowledgeable. Let us think about thisconcept in another way. What we want to get to is to tellyou: Be responsible. Attitudes that affect you, your emotions and your feelings and grieve you may occur but the summum of responsibility is that human makes a difference between what is happening to him and what he does. Let us think of this deeply... We are responsible for our lives and our behavior. When I act in a certain way, it is I who decided to behave in a certain way. The person who hit her hand on the table as a result of anger is not someone else who forced her to act this way. It was possible that she calms herself a little... Whoever decided to calmhimself and hit his hand on the table, nobody obliged him to do it. It is himself who tookthat decisionhe has decided to take. Yes, feelings may be spontaneous andfeelings may be beyond man’s will. I do not want people to change their feelings, but to change their behavior. But patience comes with the first shock It is natural to man to feel grieved. But how to act after getting grieved. Shall we act like an irresponsible man or take an action we have decided to take personally? Freedom I want you to be free, do not be a slave Freedom to do what you want, when you want, how you want; nobody controls you and saying this means a comprehensive no control over you: father, mother, husband, wife, and children and no tutor to head your work or nobody controls you. But this absolute image of freedom made humans to become harmful to themselves and therefore, human beings, regardless of their religion or beliefs or their intellectual or political curriculum, put to this freedom rules and principles (and we have rules and principles of this freedom). True freedom Origins of human beings change and change can be subject to deviation and injustice. As to the origins which comefrom God Almighty they are full justice, pure justice in which there is no oppression. This means,try to reach a point of liberty from which youcompare between values and what you want. Sometimes, what we want gets out of the value of slavery to God and makes us challenge this issue. Banner of choice We have freedom of choice. Almighty God created us and made us different from sky, mountains, animals, on the basis that we have freedom of choice. We decide what we want! We decide what we do! We decide what we believe! Who decide that? The deep, genuine freedom of choice is that which stems from self-awareness, stems from consciousness,stems from an independent determination.This is the basis for success.Teach these meanings to your children. Teach them to understand who they are, what their abilities are; teach them the values and principles of conscience, morality from which to deal with the people; teach them to have the will and determination which are not subject to anyone,except the Creator; teach them the real science: How to understand life creed, perceptions, values and self-understanding. Teach these meanings and that their actions and responses are subject to values,feelings and sensations. You can control your behavior. This principle of starting life is a principle of success. You can behave as you wish, even if your feelings force you to act in some other way, you can choose your life. This is the inherent principle which stems from the subsoil of success. People live two images. There are people living in a way that you hear the person who reactssay: there is no point; this is my nature, if it…, he/it provokes me. The man whose initiative is optimistic says: “Let us look for an alternative...” “I can change!” “I control my emotions!” “I intend to!” The way if ... If they worked ... If I did ... There are many people living this way and others who live in a positive way pursue another approach. Let us think about and look for new alternative solutions. Instead of saying:“I cannot”,say:“I can”! Instead of saying he provoked me, say I am determinedto change. Say:“No one can provoke me but I,have my own will, who control my will, I,who control my actions. Instead of saying “if…” and talk about the past, talkabout the future. Choose for yourselves and for your children to live in the way of the author’s response or initiative. Learn these words ... “I can,I appreciate”. Forget the way: “there is no benefit” Health Money Work Family Religion Environment Sciences & knowledge Each human being has his circle of interests and his circle of interests.The circle of interests are the things you are concerned in and the circle of influence are the matters I am able to deal with, to do something towards it . Family debt environment Everyone has his circleof interests and t influence. The circle of interests are the things in which you are interested and sphere of influence are the things that I can behave to do something direction. The author of the initiative asks himself this question readily. Ok, there are big problems and all the communities live with problems. What can I do? How many can I change? Then, in order to be effective, try to move from talking about interests circles and doing nothing to focusing on the sphere of influence, the things that you are able to do something about it. This is the first meaning of the meanings of success: self-achievement. To understand yourself; to understand yourself to be effective ; to understand your values to understand that you are something different from your feelings and senses ; to understand what you were born,and grew up upon and educated forare subject to change your life by yourself and not through others’ premisses. The balanced achievement has 04 aspects: 1-Self-accomplishments: There are a lot of questions focusing on the main principles and the most important questions which you largely estimated considered. The issue was not based on awareness. But tradition, of course, we want our children to be righteous and want them guidance and commitment but there is a big difference between the personthat imposes this on their sons as an obligation and the person that makes it stem from the inside and the person which makes them imitate them and between the person who shows them the way. But there is a difference between the person who acts so by tradition and the one who acts consciously and this is what I wanted to emphasize. The matter is about relationships. How to deal? A lot of us try to move people around, staff or children through matter incitement.For some people and money is the end goal to earn money and wealth is their goal in life. Really, do you want to resemble them? Certainly not! Do you want your children to be in this situation? Money becomes their catalyser. It is their stimulus and agoal in their life. Is this what you want also? Definitely not! Then, avoid doing so... Do not make them do these things for money. We cultivate a sense to buy the appearance of the people. The hands of people can do this with money (I can). But, can I make a human act for money .But can I buy his heart? Can I buy his mind? Certainly, no.! It is impossible that you follow the money method or by any other ways. It is not possible to stimulate other people even through persuasion, evidence, proof and argument. In short, stimulus from the outside is not possible. What's the alternative? The alternative is to stimulate from the inside. Let us leave human being motivate himself. What is our role, then? Keep watching ... of course not! Our role is greater than watching. Love unconditionally. Do not put a price over love and do not make love a reason to keep silent for errors. What is meant here are the relations of the children with the wife with and even with friends ... Do not make love be expensive means if you are clever, I love you and if it is the contrary, I do not love you. I shall kiss you and cuddle youbut if it is the contrary, I shall stay away from you. Love must be genuine, coming from the heart and even if it comes from the heart, do not put it a price on it in relationshipsand one should not keep silent over mistakes. Because I love a certain person, I let her do what she wants. But you love her, do not leave her do whatever she wants. Because your love your children, do not let them be in a moral hazard or anything harmful to their health, their security… 1OKeys to success First key Motives "Without motives you do not have a desire to do anything and you have more enthusiasm and more energy when you have concerns and psychological motives". Francis Bacon says: "Man’s destiny lay between his hands". In this context", Wheatley says: "The power of our desires are governed by our motives and therefore by our actions". The interpretation of success is the motivations and motivations come from your burning desires and no one can stop you when you have a burning desire to succeed. The second key Energy Your energy is high when a high degree of enthusiasm because motives provides you with energy. I shall provide you with the best ways through which you can increase your energy in a very effective manner. Energy has three main types: Physical, mental and emotional. Physical energy It is represented by breathing physical exercises and diet. 1 -Breathing: The large physical energy generated from breathing properly cleans your body effectively by 15 times more than the normal way. Dr. Weber Nobel, laureate in physiology cells,says.: "The oxygen is necessary for the formation of healthy cells, and that the quality of life you experienced is determined by the quality of your body cells". You will live a healthy life and, in order to generate a large amount of energy, you must be careful about providing your body with the maximum amount of oxygen. There is a way of breathing that purifies the blood cells from any impurities that may cause respiratory blockage called vacuum breathing. To reach it, perform the following three steps: 1- Fill in the lungs with air by inhaling from the nose, and count up to 4. - 2Keep the air inside the body,and count up to 10. - 3Slowly ... Deflate from the mouth until the count 5. Generating energy through breathing: - 1Inhale from the nose,and count up to 4 - 2Deflate the mouth,and count up to 4 likeif you turned offacandle. - 3Do this exercise 10 times. You can observe the high degree of energy you have and exercise special vacuum and power breathing exercises breathing 3 times daily in the morning, in the middle of the day and in the evening. -Food (healthy food) Eating fruits and vegetables, juice, your body contains more than 80 percent of water. -Sports Practice exercises such as walking, swimming and exercises to strengthen the abdomen, chest and arms muscles. Mental energy A very high energy will be generated in you because you have a specific goal you want to achieve. The motivation and setting goals are the primary source of mental energy. You have to copy down your goals and convince yourself that you can achieve your goals. You must also identify those assertions, read them dayly and the level of mental energy you have will increase. Emotional energy Sit in a quiet place... Breathe quietly ... And feel breathing this way, imagine your body swimming in the air, up and down, with the movement of your breathing. Think of a person you love while doing so, and you will feel calm with high emotional energy. Avoid energy thieves Anxiety. Stress. Digestion process (to avoid eating a fatty meal and go to sleep immediately after). Negative People who constanttlycomplaint. Smoking and addiction to coffee and tea. « If you planned and arranged your capacities, you will be able to remove mountains ». Ahmed Said Taibi The third key Skill Jim Ron says: “ Search for knowledge is one of the plans to reach happiness and prosperity”. Francis Bacon says: “Knowledge is power in itself” . “With knowledge,you increase your degree of intelligence and unfolds mind and the more knowledge you get,the more you should accept people to ask you to solve their problems and advise them.” Ahmed Said Taibi Fourth key Visualization «What you can dream, you can achieve it. There are ideas which die ... » Ahmed Said Taibi « The only place where dreams become impossible is within your thoughts, you, personally ». Dr. Robert Solar « If you can conceive the dream in your mind and its cultivation in your heart, and did not let the opportunity to put suspicions on it, it will be possible to make your dream come true and change your life ». Willie Jolie Key V Act « The humble man is modest in his words, and his achievements increase » Konfociuc « As long as you are convinced with the idea in your mind ... Then, implement it immediately! Do never draw back! Never! Never!!! Fear is the main enemy of the human being and the first obstacle that prevent people from acting to achieve their dreams. » Ahmed Said Taibi In NLP we say: « There is no failure, but there are only experiences" Do not worry about failure, but first you have to worry about the opportunities that are you lost while you did not even try to experience them. one ». If you fall seven times, stand up in the eighth Japanese wisdom. « The right decision comes after the experience that comes from a bad decision. Life is a risky adventure or nothing at all. » Helen Claire Philosophy of discipline is: “ To act without a plan is the reason of a complete failure”. Said Dr. Robert Scolr successful author of the possibilities: “You will never succeed if you do not start withgoodmannersand do not make any problem be an argument forinaction. After the storm, the sunrises… And radiance always come after dark, winter always turns to summer”. Key VI Expectation Everything you would expect with confidence is actually going to happen in your life. (Science of metaphysics) « We do exist nowsince our thoughts urged us to … And we will be tomorrow where our thoughts will take us». James Alan The mind, like the magnet, attracts towards it people, attitudes and circumstances of cases of similar ideas. In the book of the joy of working Conception,Wellis said: " Negative expectations result in bad luck…" Seventh key Commitment "Sometimes people fail, not because of lack of capacity, but due to lack of commitment". ZigZilar "Struggle to the last breathe in your life ". William Shakespeare Dr. Robert Schuller Said in his book: « The Power of Ideas »: « Do your best effort s and start small but think at a high level. You have to cross over the consequences, and investall that you possess, and be always ready to act, and anticipate obstacles, but do not let them prevent you from progressing. Successful people do not retreat and abandonners do not succeed». Old saying You already own all the things necessary to become .great! » Do not despair. Notch yourself from the ground ... Shake yourself from dust ... God is with you and start over again. ... Key VIII Flexibility “Life without planning does not deserve to belived ”. Marchial “The flexibility is the control of the most flexible person in her style. Her governing of things will be greater”. Ninth key Patience "Many of the failures in life which made people not realize how close they were to success when they bent to surrender" Thomas Edison " Do not despair. Usually, the last key in the key combination is the appropriate key to open the door" . Norman Vincent "Wait ... Do not rush in life ... So do not forget where you came from and where you are going ... Life is not a race but a stop at every step along your way." Ahmed Said Taibi Key X Discipline "What you put in your mind, whether negative or positive you will harvest it in the end ." Dr. Helmster "Watch your thoughts for they will become actions; Watch your actions for theywill become habits; Observe your habit because they will become print; Watch your character for it will determine your destiny." Frank Otto "Every relationship is like a bank and the bank has accounts: The good word, Forgiveness and tolerance, The kind gift, The Good listening" ... Ahmed Said Taibi « When a person knows herself, knows her abilities, then the footsteps of the first serious step she made is the honesttowards success » ... step Ahmed Said Taibi " Eighty per cent of what we do will change in a period of five years from today". Life without study do not deserve to live « Patience is the best remedy to any problem". Platon "If you want to be happy, focus on goals not on people". Albert Einstein "You do not need moneyto start an act of business as much as you need the idea to reach this end. Trust in yourself ... Write your goals ... make a plan... your control in your life, your success andyour progress will increase..". Ahmed Said Taibi "Plans for your future now ... Towards the goal. Write aspects of your life ... the religious, health, vocational, social and personal side in a separate piece of paper. Write the most important values you adopted in your life, such as faith, loyalty, patience, love and commitment ... This is the fuel of your goals which gives them energy and strength.And read them daily. The most precious thing we have in life is time ..." Ahmed Said Taibi "The wise man is who investing in his time ... Ahmed Said Taibi Elements of Happiness Science Reveals the Formula for Happiness and the Secret to a Happy Life Over the past 20 years, scientists all over the world have looked at happy people and what they have in common. It turns out that no matter where you live or what your religion, those of us who are consistiently happy with our lives all follow some pretty consistient patterns. These patterns are the formula for happiness. The really good news about this is that these patterns show that at least half of our happiness is due to things within our own control! In his book, Authentic Happiness, Dr. Martin Seligman reveals the elements of happiness. He saysthat the formula for happinessis: The Formula for a Happy Life, by Dr. Martin Seligman Enduring Level of Happiness What is happiness?Researchers use a life satisfaction survey to measure people's enduring level of happiness. Each person rates his or her general happiness on a scale of 1 to 4 or 1 to 7 for four questions, and then takes the average result. These tests are designed to measure a happy life based on the over all level of happiness across a lifetime. Scientific conclusions about the elements of happiness are almost all based on this approach. Find out more about how to measure happiness with the articleMeasure Happiness. Set Point Research on twins has shown that many of our traits, like body weight, pessimism, and being an extrovert are inherited genetically from our parents. About 50% of our tendency for these traits comes from our genes. The other 50% comes from our habits or training. So, we may not be able to completely change our nature, but we can learn to live in the happier part of our range by adopting newbehaviors and thoughtpatterns. This is the real secret to happiness: we can not change our nature, but we can choose happiness by choosing thoughts and activities that maximize our happiness within our nature. Circumstances Our circumstances, like health, wealth, social life and education do impact our level of happiness somewhat. Researchers have identified many of the long term circumstances that are elements of happiness and how much each contributes. The answers may surprise you. Find out more about the circumstances that lead to happiness and the ones that don't in the Ways to Happiness. Variables There is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so.- Shakespeare Dr. Selligman divides the variable factors for happiness into pleasures and gratifications. Pleasures include sensory and emotional experiences. For example a delicious taste, or comforting warmth are sensory pleasures and glee or delight are emotional pleasures. Pleasure is subjective, meaning the person needs to feel the pleasure, no matter what anyone else's definition is. Pleasures are also fleeting and momentary, so lasting happiness depends on pleasure that can be sustained over time. For example, drinking wine might make you feel good for a few hours, but over time the effect wears off and too much will severely degrade health over time thus reducing happiness. Gratifications are activities weenjoy primarily because of the result. When we help someone or achieve something important we feel gratified. Another way to look at the variable factors for happiness is to divide them into happy thoughts and happy activities. When we think happy thoughts we are aware that we are experiencing happiness. We might think to ourselves about the pleasure we feel at that moment, or how gratified we feel helping someone. Any one of the positive emotions can lead to happy thoughts. It is not in the pursuit of happiness that we find fulfillment, it is in the happiness of pursuit. Denis Waitley Happy activities, on the other hand, may not necessarily feel happy at the time. These activities absorb and engage us fully. When we are doing happy activities, we are not aware of how we feel in the moment, but after the activity is over, we look back and realize we had fun, or feel proud of the result.. Gratifying activities often produce a state of mind called flow, or being in the zone. The Secret to a Happy Life The secret to a happy life is to choose happiness. Choose happiness by choosing activities that maximize the elements of happiness in the formula for happiness. So, in the words of Bobby McFerrin, don't worry, be happy. Enjoy the life you have now, keep building a happy future, and remember your past fondly. Learn how to incorporate the Elements of Happiness into your life with the Happy Life U Tip of the Week.Get happy quotes, tips, affirmations, and meditation questions delivered to your email box and choose happiness for yourself! Proverb of Happiness * Happiness opens the arms and closes the eyes. * *No one is happier than he who believes in his happiness. *No one is unhappier than the one who believes in happiness. * Where you are not -- there is happiness. * * Happiness rarely keeps company with an empty stomach.* *Happiness spring -- cleans the heart.* * Into the house where joy lives, happiness will gladly come. *One moment of intense happiness prolongs life by a thousand years.* * Where there is laughter happiness likes to be.* HAPPINESS & WELLBEING "Healing comes from taking responsibility: to realize that it is you - and no one else - that creates your thoughts, your feelings, and your actions." —Peter Shepherd "Life is a journey and if you fall in love with the journey you will be in love forever." —Peter Hagerty "When you return to your old hometown, you find it wasn't the town you missed, but your childhood." —Earl Wilson "As we grow old, the beauty steals inward." —Ralph Waldo Emerson "Life begins as a quest of the child for the man, and ends as a journey by the man to rediscover the child."—Sam Ewing "Ultimately your greatest teacher is to live with an open heart." —Emmanuel (Pat Rodegast) "Doing what you like is freedom. Liking what you do is happiness." —Frank Tyger "We forge the chains we wear in life." —Charles Dickens "If you look to others for fulfillment, you will never be fulfilled. If your happiness depends on money, you will never be happy with yourself. Be content with what you have; rejoice in the way things are. When you realize there is nothing lacking, the world belongs to you." —Lao Tzu "Everything is a gift of the universe —even joy, anger, jealously, frustration, or separateness. Everything is perfect either for our growth or our enjoyment." —Ken Keyes Jr. "There is no such thing as a problem without a gift for you in its hands. You seek problems because you need their gifts." —Richard Bach "If you want to be happy, set a goal that commands your thoughts, liberates your energy, and inspires your hopes." —Andrew Carnegie "Tension is who you think you should be, relaxation is who you are." —Ancient Chinese Proverb "I believe the recipe for happiness to be just enough money to pay the monthly bills you acquire, a little surplus to give you confidence, a little too much work each day, enthusiasm for your work, a substantial share of good health, a couple of real friends and a wife and children to share life's beauty with you." —J. Kenfield Morley "For me it is sufficient to have a corner by my hearth, a book and a friend, and a nap undisturbed by creditors or grief." —Fernandez de Andrada "You cannot judge what should bring others joy, and others cannot judge what should bring you joy." —Alan Cohen "The art of living lies less in eliminating our troubles than growing with them." —Bernard M. Baruch "Be happy with what you have. Be excited about what you want." —Alan Cohen "Our capacity to draw happiness from aesthetic objects or material goods in fact seems critically dependent on our first satisfying a more important range of emotional or psychological needs, among them the need for understanding, for love, expression and respect." —Alain De Botton "If you start to think the problem is 'out there,' stop yourself. That thought is the problem." —Stephen Covey "Happiness cannot be traveled to, owned, earned, worn or consumed. Happiness is the spiritual experience of living every minute with love, grace, and gratitude." —Denis Waitley "Happiness is not a station you arrive at, but a manner of traveling." —Margaret Lee Runbeck ******** Time… Take time to work - it is the price of success Take time to think - it is the source of power Take time to play - it is the secret of perpetual youth Take time to read - it is the fountain of wisdom Take time to be friendly - it is the road to happiness Take time to love and be loved - it is the nourishment of the soul Take time to share - it is too short a life to be selfish Take time to laugh - it is the music of the heart Take time to dream - it is hitching your wagon to a star." Happiness Laughter : The benefits of going ‘Haha!’ THE AMBITION When ambition ends, happiness begins. Very few people are ambitious in the sense of having a specific image of what they want to achieve. Most people's sights are only toward the next run, the next increment of mone.. We are told never to cross a bridge until we come to it, but this world is owned by men who have 'crossed bridges' in their imagination far ahead of the crowd.. When you are aspiring to the highest place, it is honorable to reach the second or even the third rank.. Great ambition is the passion of a great character. Those endowed with it may perform very good or very bad acts. All depends on the principals which direct them.. The men who succeed are the efficient few. They are the few who have the ambition and will power to develop themselves.. MONEY Money is mightier than the brain The Brain: A Broadcasting and Receiving Station for Thought … Your Right to Be Rich! Think and Grow Rich! “Fears are nothing more than a state of mind... “Money is only clam shells or metal discs or scraps of paper, and there are ... Change your Paradigms and Get Money, Love and a Better Life ... getting everything you want out of life is to think and imagine itin your mind ... They give the impression that once you have mastered this technique then you will get ... We can have things we want if we know how to think. Napoleon Hill ... 8 Ways to Attract Money Using Mind Power 1-Confidence. 2-Generosity. 3-Look for and Be Open to Opportunity. 4-Persistence. 5-Know Your Value. 6-Have Positive Expectation. 7-Faith. 8 - Be Lucky. When you're feeling lucky, you're more likely to do something audacious that (hopefully) leads to money coming your way. This state is the most likely to be spur-of-the-moment and dependent on the odds, so don't overdo it on this one. How to Attract Good Luck and Good Fortune The best way to attract good luck and good fortune is to believe good luck exists. There is actual scientific proof about the difference between lucky and unlucky ... Have you been unlucky? Lost a job? Poor health?Financial difficulty? Not enough love? Do you want to change your luck? Here's a way to take positive action ... Do you want to change your luck? Hope & Happiness Dum spiro, spero (Latin), “While I breath, I hope” ~ Latin Proverb What oxygen is to the lungs, such is hope to the meaning of life. ~ Emil Brunner Where there’s life, there’s hope. ~ Terence What would life be if we had no courage to attempt anything? ~ Vincent van Gogh Hope is important because it can make the present moment less difficult to bear. If we believe that tomorrow will be better, we can bear a hardship today. ~ ThichNhat Hope arouses, as nothing else can arouse, a passion for the possible.~ William Sloan Coffin The very least you can do in your life is to figure out what you hope for. 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You can choose which it shall be. Yesterday is dead, tomorrow hasn't arrived yet. You have just one day - Today. When you start your day; tell yourself, I'm going to be happy today. I Will Be There For You I'll be there for you These five words I swear to you When you breathe I want to be the air for you I'll be there for you I'd live and I'd die for you Steal the sun from the sky for you Words can't say what a love can do I'll be there for you Life's Blessings I cried because I had no shoes; Till I saw a man with no feet. Life is full of blessings. Sometimes we're just too blind to see them. Go Out and Create How does one find good in world? With so much pain, with so many hungry children, with so much suffering? The answer is not to try find 'good' but to create it, by helping one person at a time. Go out and create something good today!! Give And Take You have two hands. Take with one and with other you give. That's the way life works out and that's the way to live. What you get and what you give must balance up someday. It's give a little, take a little all along the way. Don't Wait For Tomorrow Gravity is not responsible for people to fall in love. It just happens. And when it does happen, don't wait for the right time to express, because right time is when your heart beats faster. If you love someone.. don't wait for tomorrow, or for the other person to make the move. Agreed 'Tomorrow never dies', but also remember 'Tomorrow never comes, so live in today.' Add Life to Your Years Don't take life too seriously., always find time to laugh! Laughter not only adds years to your life, but adds more life to your years. Whatever That Comes Some people always enjoy the best that life has to offer. It's not because more good things come their way. It's because they find and enjoy the good in whatever that comes their way. Heaven on Earth What goes around comes around. Work like you don't need the money. Love like you've never been hurt. Dance like nobody is watching. Sing like nobody is listening. Live like its Heaven on Earth. Look at the Brighter Side We human beings are such small creatures. So don't be too worried about everything, treasure every moment, do what you wish to do. Broaden your view, broaden your mind. Don't worry too much about things that are bothering you. Do treasure your loved ones, live safely and peacefully. Always be happy to welcome the coming of the new day... Enjoy the sunshine... Always look at the brighter side of things. Success The time is now If there was ever a time to dare, to make a difference, to embark on something worth doing, IT IS NOW. Not for any grand cause, necessarily... but for something that tugs at your heart, something that's your inspiration, something that's your dream. You owe it to yourself, to make your days here count. Life does not come without Risk The greatest highs of life do not come without success. Life does not come without Risk. What will you be today? 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The Perfect 10 Young Gymnast Nadia Comaneci - the first one to show the World perfect 10 at age of 13. Perfect Inspiration. Clock Of Life The clock of life is wound only once. No man has the power to tell just when the hands will stop. At late or early hour. Now is the only time you own. Live, love, toil with a will. Place no faith in time. For the clock may soon be still. If You Think You Can If you think you are beaten, you are; If you think you dare not, you don't; If you want to win but think you can't, It's almost a cinch you won't. If you think you'll lose, you're lost; For out of the world we find Success begins with a fellow's will; It's all in a state of mind. Life's battles don't always go to the stronger and faster man, But sooner or later the man who wins It the man who thinks he can. Wishes Write Your Name Don't write your name on sand, waves will wash it away. Don't write your name in sky, wind may blow it away. Write your name in hearts of people you come in touch with. That's where it will stay. Give And Take You have two hands. Take with one and with other you give. That's the way life works out and that's the way to live. What you get and what you give must balance up someday. It's give a little, take a little all along the way. Richness of Life You are Rich or poor in life by... Smiles around you, Friends you make, People you are with, Ideas you have, Dreams you chase, And the love you spread . Love While You Live Realize things before its too late. Have lots of friends before you are alone. Accept things rather than deny them. Love people before you loose them. Life comes just once. Love it while you live it. Life is a Race Winning horse doesn’t know why it runs in race, It runs because of beats and pains. Life is a race, God is your rider. So if you are in pain think God wants you to win. Start from Now Don’t wait for someone to help you; You can do everything you want to. You will be better, but if you start working. Start to put your dreams, your wishes in to action. Limit the things you hate and change it bit by bit. If you continue to do the same things, you will gain the same results. You must do all what you can to get all what you want. Start from now. Go ahead . Searching For Happiness Realize that true happiness lies within you. Waste no time and effort searching for peace and contentment and joy in the world outside. Remember that there is no happiness in having or in getting, buy only in giving. Reach out. Share. Smile. Hug. Happiness is a perfume you cannot pour on others, without getting a few drops on yourself. Action The Time Is Now If there was ever a time to dare, to make a difference, to embark on something worth doing, IT IS NOW. Not for any grand cause, necessarily... but for something that tugs at your heart, something that's your inspiration, something that's your dream. You owe it to yourself, to make your days here count. Anger 1. Do Not Interfere In Others’ Business Unless Asked: Most of us create our own problems by interfering too often in others’ affairs. We do so because somehow we have convinced ourselves that our way is the best way, our logic is the perfect logic and those who do not conform to our thinking must be criticized and steered to the right direction, our direction. This thinking denies the existence of individuality and consequently the existence of God.. God has created each one of us in a unique way. No two human beings can think or act in exactly the same way. All men or women act the way they do because God within them prompts them that way. Mind your own business and you will keep your peace. 2. Forgive And Forget: This is the most powerful aid to peace of mind. We often develop ill feelings inside our heart for the person who insults us or harms us. We nurture grievances. This in turn results in loss of sleep, development of stomach ulcers, and high blood pressure. This insult or injury was done once, but nourishing of grievance goes on forever by constantly remembering it. Get over this bad habit. Life is too short to waste in such trifles. Forgive, 20 Forget, and march on. Love flourishes in giving and forgiving. 3. Do Not Crave For Recognition: This world is full of selfish people. They seldom praise anybody without selfish motives. They may praise you today because you are in power, but no sooner than you are powerless, they will forget your achievement and will start finding faults in you. Why do you wish to kill yours if in striving for their recognition? Their recognition is not worth the aggravation. Do your duties ethically and sincerely. 4. Do Not Be Jealous: We all have experienced how jealousy can disturb our peace of mind. You know that you work harder than your colleagues in the office, but sometimes they get promotions; you do not. You started a business several years ago, but you are not as successful as your neighbor whose business is only one year old. There are several examples like these in everyday life. Should you be jealous? No. Remember everybody’s life is shaped by his/her destiny, which has now become his/her reality. If you are destined to be rich, nothing in the world can stop you. If you are not so destined, no one can help you either. Nothing will be gained by blaming others for your misfortune. Jealousy will not get you anywhere; it will only take away your peace of mind. 5. Change Yourself According To The Environment: If you try to change the environment single-handedly, the chances are you will fail. Instead, change yourself to suit your environment. As you do this, even the environment, which has been unfriendly to you, will mysteriously change and seem congenial and harmonious. 6. Endure What Cannot Be Cured: This is the best way to turn a disadvantage into an advantage. Every day we face numerous inconveniences, ailments, irritations, and accidents that are beyond our control. If we cannot control them or change them, we must learn to put up with these things. We must learn to endure them cheerfully. Believe in yourself and you will gain in terms of patience, inner strength and will power. 7. Do Not Bite Off More Than You Can Chew: This maxim needs to be remembered constantly. We often tend to take more responsibilities than we are capable of carrying out. This is done to satisfy our ego. Know your limitations. . Why take on additional loads that may create more worries? You cannot gain peace of mind by expanding your external activities. Reduce your material engagements and spend time in prayer, introspection and meditation. This will reduce those thoughts in your mind that make you restless. Uncluttered mind will produce greater peace of mind. 8. Meditate Regularly: Meditation calms the mind and gets rid of disturbing thoughts. This is the highest state of peace of mind. Try and experience it yourself. If you meditate earnestly for half an hour everyday, your mind will tend to become peaceful during the remaining twenty-three and half-hours. Your mind will not be easily disturbed as it was before. You would benefit by gradually increasing the period of daily meditation. You may think that this will interfere with your daily work. On the contrary, this will increase your efficiency and you will be able to produce better results in less time. 9. Never Leave The Mind Vacant: An empty mind is the devil’s workshop. All evil actions start in the vacant mind. Keep your mind occupied in something positive, something worthwhile. Actively follow a hobby. Do something that holds your interest. You must decide what you value more: money or peace of mind. Your hobby, like social work or religious work, may not always earn you more money, but you will have a sense of fulfillment and achievement. Even when you are resting physically, occupy yourself in healthy reading or mental chanting of God’s name. 10. Do Not Procrastinate And Never Regret: Do not waste time in protracted wondering ” Should I or shouldn’t I?” Days, weeks, months, and years may be wasted in that futile mental debating. You can never plan enough because you can never anticipate all future happenings. Value your time and do the things that need to be done. It does not matter if you fail the first time. You can learn from your mistakes and succeed the next time. Sitting back and worrying will lead to nothing. Learn from your mistakes, but do not brood over the past. DO NOT REGRET. Whatever happened was destined to happen only that way. Why cry over split milk? Attitude Make a Difference Today Don't stop yourself from doing a deed just cause it's small or only cause just one or few individuals will benefit from it. Just remember, no matter how small the deed; it really does makes a difference. Make a difference today. Look through my eyes Life is not about stopping, but to continue and learn. And whenever you are down, think of the shining sun in all its majesty, all its grandeur. Life always has to offer more. If you ever see this world in shades of gray, don't cry, do not dismay. Look through my eyes, you will see life is indeed beautiful. For both you and me. Joy In Living Keep your hearts open to dreams. For as long as there's dream, there is hope. And as long as there is hope, there is joy in living Richness Of Life You are Rich or poor in life by... Smiles around you, Friends you make, People you are with, Ideas you have, Dreams you chase, And the love you spread. Are You Blessed? If you woke up this morning with more health than illness……….you are more blessed than the million who will not survive this week. If you have never experienced the danger of battle, the loneliness of imprisonment, the agony of torture, or the pangs of starvation…….you are ahead of 500 million people in the world. If you have food in the refrigerator, clothes on your back, a roof overhead and a place to sleep…you are richer than 75% of this world. If you have money in the bank, in your wallet, and spare change in a dish someplace……. you are among the top 8% of the world’s wealthy. If your parents are still alive and still married……..you are very rare, even in the United States. If you hold up your head with a smile on your face and are truly thankful…..you are blessed because the majority can, but most do not. If you prayed yesterday and today……..you are in the minority because you believe God does hear and answer prayers. If you can read now, you are more blessed than over two billion people in the world that cannot read at all. If you are still regretting over anything today, make yourself understand that you are blessed more than many people around you. Try cheering them up in some few, you will be satisfied more with your life. Bless you. Always Follow Your Dreams There were once 2 brothers who lived on the 80th level. On coming home one day, they realized to their dismay that the lifts were not working and that they have to climb the stairs home. After struggling to the 20th level, panting and tired, they decided to abandon their bags and come back for them the next day. They left their bags then and climbed on. When they have struggled to the 40th level, the younger brother started to grumble and both of them began to quarrel. They continued to climb the flights of steps, quarreling all the way to the 60th floor. They then realized that they have only 20 levels more to climb and decided to stop quarreling and continue climbing in peace. They silently climbed on and reached their home at long last. Each stood calmly before the door and waited for the other to open the door. And they realized that the key was in their bags which was left on the 20th floor. This story is reflecting on our life…many of us live under the expectations of our parents, teachers and friends when young. We seldom get to do the things that we really like and love and are under so much pressure and stress so that by the age of 20, we get tired and decided to dump this load. Being free of the stress and pressure, we work enthusiastically and dream ambitious wishes. But by the time we reach 40 years old, we start to lose our vision and dreams. We began to feel unsatisfied and start to complain and criticize. We live life as a misery as we are never satisfied. Reaching 60, we realize that we have little left for complaining anymore, and we began to walk the final episode in peace and calmness. We think that there is nothing left to disappoint us, only to realize that we could not rest in peace because we have an unfulfilled dream …… a dream we abandoned 60 years ago. So what is your dream? Follow your dreams, so that you will not live with regrets. A Balanced Life My life has been balanced with pleasures and trials, I've had many teardrops and thousands of smiles. I've soared to the moon and I've plunged to the sand, My life has been balanced by God's loving hand. I've had many friendships I've had a few foes, In the life of a Christian that's the way that it goes. Should I just accept only good from God's hands No, I must endure whatever He plans. But I can be sure and you can be, too, All things work for best as God deals with you. Create Light of Your Life It doesn't matter for how long the room has been dark; For a day, or a week, or a year, or for ten thousand years. The moment you bring in a candle; darkness vanishes like it was never there. Similarly, it doesn't matter for how long we are stuck in a sense of our limitations. The moment you decide to break free, nothing will stop you. Create the light of your life. Believe in Yourself There may be days when you get up in the morning and things aren’t the way you had hoped they would be. That’s when you have to tell yourself that things will get better. There are times when people disappoint you and let you down. But those are the times when you remind yourself to trust your own judgments and opinions, to keep your life focused on believing in yourself. There will be challenges to face and changes to make in your life, and it is up to you to accept them. Constantly keep yourself headed in the right direction for you. It may not be easy at times, but in those times of struggle, you will find a stronger sense of who you are. So when the days come that are filled with frustration and unexpected responsibilities, remember to believe in yourself and all you want your life to be. Because the challenges and changes will only help you to find the goals that you know are meant to come true for you. Keep believing in yourself. Change Shining Star Something simple can change your day. Something simple can change your way. It's in your hear, not your mind. It's something good inside you'll find. Don't forget who you are. Don't forget you're a shining star. Let Me Do It Now I expect to pass through this world, but once; Any good thing therefore that I can do, or any kindness that I can show to any fellow creature, let me do it now; Let me not defer or neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again . That is why I Succeed I've missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. Twenty-six times I've been trusted to take the game-winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed. Jump for Challenges Instead of avoiding challenges, jump into them. Beat the heck out of them. Enjoy the game. If your challenges are too large, do not give up. Failing makes you tired. Instead, reorganize. Find more determination, more knowledge and more help. And then, Just go for it! Difficulties Life without Challenge A life without challenge would be like going to school without lessons to learn. Challenges come not to depress or get you down, but to master and to grow and to unfold your abilities. Nothing is Over Do not give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying. Difficult Phase of Life The most difficult phase of life is not when no one understands you; It is when you don’t understand yourself. Failure Be a Honest Failure I would prefer to be a honest failure, than to be a corrupt success. FaithWe Walk by Faith, Not Sight We Walk By Faith, Not Sight. Do You Believe?? One day a 6 year old girl was sitting in a classroom. The teacher was going to explain evolution to the children. The teacher asked a little boy: “Tommy do you see the tree outside?” TOMMY: Yes. TEACHER: Tommy, do you see the grass outside? TOMMY: Yes. TEACHER: Go outside and look up and see if you can see the sky. TOMMY: Okay. (He returned a few minutes later) Yes, I saw the sky. TEACHER: Did you see God? TOMMY: No. TEACHER: That’s my point. We can’t see God because he isn’t there. He doesn’t exist. A little girl spoke up and wanted to ask the boy some questions. The teacher agreed and the little girl asked the boy: “Tommy, do you see the tree outside?” TOMMY: Yes. LITTLE GIRL: Tommy do you see the grass outside? TOMMY: Yessssss (getting tired of the questions by this time). LITTLE GIRL: Did you see the sky? TOMMY: Yessssss LITTLE GIRL: Tommy, do you see the teacher? TOMMY: Yes LITTLE GIRL: Do you see her brain? TOMMY: No LITTLE GIRL: Then according to what we were taught today in school, she must not have one! “FOR WE WALK BY FAITH, NOT BY SIGHT” II CORINTHIANS 4:7 Give Value to Relationships A man stopped at a flower shop for ordering some flowers to be sent as a gift to his mother who lived two hundred miles away. As he got out of his car he noticed a young girl sitting on the curb sobbing. He asked her what was wrong and she replied, “I wanted to buy a red rose for my mother. But I only have seventy-five cents, and a rose costs two dollars.” The man smiled and said, “Come on in with me. I’ll buy you a rose.” He bought the little girl her rose and ordered his own mother’s flowers. As they were leaving he offered the girl a ride home. She said, “Yes, please! You can take me to my mother.” She directed him to a cemetery, where she placed the rose on a freshly dug grave. The man returned to the flower shop, canceled the gifting order, picked up a bouquet and drove the two hundred miles to his mother’s house. At times we take many such relationships with our family and friends for granted. Learn to value them Family Burdens of Life We worry about our family, we worry about money or the lack of it. We worry about work, about where we live, about all sorts of things. These are all burdens - the things we pick up along life's path and lug them around the obstacles and over the crevasses that life will bring; only to find that, at the destination they are useless and we can't take them with us. Fear Doors of Life We are born into a vast room, whose walls consist of a thousand doors of possibility. Each door is flung open to the world outside, and the room is filled with light and noise. We close some of the doors deliberately, sometimes with fear, sometimes with calm certainty. Others seem to close by themselves, some so quietly that we do not even notice. I Will Not Die I will not die and unlived life. I will not live in fear of falling or catching fire. I choose to inhabit by days, to allow my living to open me, to make me less afraid, more accessible, to loosen my heart until it becomes a wing, a torch, a promise. I choose to risk my significance; to live so that which comes to me as seed goes to next as blossom and that which comes to me as blossom, goes as a fruit. World Is Waiting For You Do not be afraid to shine. The world needs what you have to give. Open up the areas of your being; Expose them to yourself - to others. You are valuable. You are unique. You have much to give. Do not be afraid to give it. As we risk ourselves, we grow. Each new experience is a risk. We can try, and maybe fail; And, as a result, grow or hold back and stagnate. You have the potential to be anything you want. You are free to choose. You are limited only by your fears. Let your dreams take over. Fly with the eagles. Soar into life. The world is waiting for you. Author: Fran Watson Life Is Wonderful Face your past without regret. Handle your present with confidence. Prepare for the future without fear. Keep faith and drop the fear. Don’t believe your doubts and never doubt your beliefs. Life is wonderful if you know how to live it. Act In Spite Of Fear Fear knocked at my door, and faith answered… When I went to open the door, there was no one there. Fears, like babies, grow larger by nursing them. We should act in spite of fear and not because of fear. Be Truthful We tell lies when we are afraid.. Afraid of what we don’t know, Afraid of what others will think, Afraid of what will be found out about us. But every time we tell a lie.. the thing we fear grows stronger. Be truthful. With others. With self. Focus15 Steps to Fulfilling Your Wildest Dreams There are 3 keys to success in any new venture: 1) Being in the right place at the right time. (You could well be already there!) 2) Have a vision of where the industry/business you’re working in is going! 3) Taking Massive and Immediate Action! (It is time to act!) “The future belongs to those who believe in the quality of their dreams.” Was it Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe, the famous German poet and philosopher who said those wise words? Here are 15 steps to fulfilling your wildest dreams… 1. KNOW YOURSELF Know and accept your weaknesses and faults (we all have them), but even more so your strengths, abilities and gifts. Build on your strengths and try to minimize or improve on your weaknesses. An honest, objective analysis of yourself is the first step in preparing you for success and realizing your dreams. Celebrate you for just being you, a unique creation. Aim for mental clarity about what you most want out of life. Think about it and write it down. If it’s happiness, what do you mean by happiness: a sense of belonging, recognition, independence, love, money or security? If you don’t know where you are and where you want to go with your life, how will you ever get there? Aim at nothing and you’re sure to hit it. 2. GET PASSIONATE Don’t apologize for getting passionate. What excites you the most? If you are not enthusiastic and excited about what you’re doing, your path in life, you’ll never get others to share your dream. Once you find your passion, you will have found your POWER, MEANING and PURPOSE in life. 3. SURROUND YOURSELF WITH POSITIVE PASSION Always be aware. Negative people will poison your dream faster than anything else. Motto: “If you can’t be positive, shut up!” Try and stay positive…even in the face of negativity. 4. ACCEPT FROM THE START THAT YOU WON’T PLEASE EVERYONE You’re going to be misunderstood, misquoted, hurt some feelings, perhaps even lose some friends (for the time being). Motto: “What other people think of me is none of my business!” Repeat this statement to yourself, especially when you doubt or feel discouraged. 5. ALWAYS BE YOURSELF To thine own self be true. (Shakespeare’s “Hamlet”, act I.3.) This is supremely important, no matter what the world may think of you. The masses are conditioned to mediocrity and other people’s success can make them not feel inferior for their own insignificant little lives. Accept yourself. Learn from others–but don’t be intimidated by them, or pretend to be someone you’re not; because…”We are most effective when we’re being ourselves.” 6. DON’T BE SCARED OF MAKING MISTAKES The only real mistake is one from which you learn nothing. Motto: “Far better to try something and fail, than try nothing and succeed!” 7. ACCEPT THAT IT WILL NEVER BE EASY Realizing your dream may be the hardest, most uphill thing you’ll ever do. A truth …”You can’t coast uphill.” The key ingredient in success is never giving up. Keep on keeping on with your quest. It has been said that”success is 99% made up of failures”. 8. STAY HUMBLE (no matter how successful you may be) Don’t ever think you’ve made it and arrived–there’s always a lot ahead, more to do, higher mountains to climb. Motto: “The greatest way to do our thing has yet to be discovered!” 9. DON’T UNDERESTIMATE YOURSELF There is incredible power in yourself (in the form of the unique human mind), but far more so in the forces of the Universe. Make them work for you by living your life in harmony with these natural forces. Like positive energy attracts like. Enough “spiritual” thoughts! Back to the “real world” and you. Avoid developing an inferiority complex (Who am I, a ‘nothing’?”). Don’t be filled with feelings of self-pity (”nobody likes me”), or think “I can’t do it.” These thoughts will steal your dream. 10. HAVE FUN Nothing is ever as bad as it seems–don’t get too solemn, or serious or too downcast when things go wrong (as they surely will from time to time). Take a leaf from Thomas Edison’s book: “I never did a day’s work in my entire life: it was all FUN!” Laugh at life’s funny moments…and there are plenty of them. “The secret of happiness is not in doing what one likes, but in liking what one does.” - J.M. Barrie 11. DEVELOP ‘THE WILL TO LIVE’ There will be plenty of times when you’ll face the death of your dream. When failures, disappointments, and criticisms come you need the will and faith to keep going. Remember: We learn far more from our failures than our successes, because failures show us what doesn’t work. So, failure is just one step closer to ultimate success. Often the difference between failure and success is trying just one more time, picking yourself up off the canvas after being knocked down time and again. 12. DEVELOP ‘THE WILL TO HELP AND SERVE OTHERS’ Success on its own (i.e., for its own sake) will pollute and corrupt you–it’s a dead end street unless you have meaning in your life. The years of struggle breed fortitude and character. The gold may be an inch away from the seam, where your fellow miners have given up. You need to succeed for a reason, a purpose, a cause that’s bigger than you! and IF (a very big if) you’ve fulfilled all the above requirements… By the time you finish reading this you will realise its just 12 steps and not 15……….. You Can See the Future You can see the future with a vision Study your present situation thoroughly. Go over in your imagination the various courses of action possible to you. Visualize the consequences which can follow from each course. Pick out the course which gives you the most promise and go ahead. Many successful people use this skill of mental visualization. They mentally run through important events before they happen. Picture yourself in your minds eye as already having achieved your goal. See yourself doing the things you’ll be doing when you’ve reached your goal. You can put your subconscious to work toward making your mental pictures come true. Go over your day in your imagination before you begin it. You can begin acting successfully at any moment. See the things you want as already yours. Think of them as yours, as already in your possession. What you can see in your mind, you can get. 21 Things to Remember 1. No one can ruin your day without YOUR permission. 2. Most people will be about as happy, as they decide to be. 3. Others can stop you temporarily, but only you can do it permanently. 4. Whatever you are willing to put up with, is exactly what you will have. 5. Success stops when you do. 6. When your ship comes in…. make sure you are willing to unload it. 7. You will never have it all together. 8. Life is a journey…not a destination. Enjoy the trip! 9. The biggest lie on the planet when I get what I want I will be happy. 10. The best way to escape your problem is to solve it. 11. I’ve learned that ultimately, ‘takers’ lose and ‘givers’ win. 12. Life’s precious moments don’t have value, unless they are shared. 13. If you don’t start, it’s certain you won’t arrive. 14. We often fear the thing we want the most. 15. He or she who laughs……lasts. 16. Yesterday was the deadline for all complaints. 17. Look for opportunities…not guarantees. 18. Life is what’s coming….not what was. 19. Success is getting up one more time. 20. Now is the most interesting time of all. Keep Trying till you Succeed Advertisement from Coke, and a great message - Keep Trying till you succeed. Author : Coca Cola Advt What will you be Today? A simple and powerful homemade video with so much inspiration. What will you be today? Strong, Confident, Hopeful, Bold, Courageous, Dedicated, and so much more. inspiration, self, attitude, character, strong, confident, Hope success, experience, passion, learning, focus Try Harder Just because something is difficult, doesn't mean we should not try. But it only means that - we should try harder Forgiveness Do Good and Forget It Two monks on a pilgrimage came to the ford of a river. There they saw a girl dressed in all her finery, obviously not knowing what to do since the river was high and she did not want to spoil her clothes. One of the monks took her on his back, carried her across and put her down on dry ground on the other side. Then the monks continued on their way. But the other monk after an hour started complaining, "surely it is not right to touch a woman; it is against the commandments to have close contact with women. How could you go against the rules for monks?" The monk who had carried the girl walked along silently, but finally he remarked, "I set her down by the river an hour ago, why are you still carrying her?" Do good and forget it., and keep undue worries out of your life. Have Patience A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital. Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands. When the boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, "Daddy, I'm sorry about your truck." Then he asked, "But when are my fingers going to grow back?" Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or you wish to take revenge. Think first before u lose your patience with someone you love. Trucks can be repaired. Broken bones & hurt feelings often can't. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge. People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever. Pause and ponder. Think before you act. Be patient. Forgive & forget. Love one and all. Always Have Hope I hope that I will always be for each person what he or she needs me to be. I hope that each person's death will diminish me, but that fear of my own will never diminish my joy of life. I hope that my love for those whom I like will never lessen my love for those whom I do not. I hope that another person's love for me will never be a measure of my love for him or her. I hope that everybody will accept me as I am, but that I never will. I hope that I will always ask for forgiveness from others, but will never need to be asked for my own . . . I hope that I will always recognize my limitations, but that I will construct none. I hope that loving will always be my goal, but that love will never be my idol. I hope that everyone will always have hope. Author : Henri Nouwen Do Less Do Less Thinking, and pay more attention to your heart. Do Less Acquiring, and pay more attention to what you already have. Do Less Complaining, and pay more attention to giving. Do Less Controlling, and pay more attention to letting go. Do Less Criticizing, and pay more attention to complementing. Do Less Arguing, and pay more attention to forgiveness. Do less running around, and pay more attention to stillness. Do Less Talking, and pay more attention to silence. Make Me a Lighthouse I want to be a lighthouse For those who don't know God So I might lead them to You, While here on Earth we trod. Like a ship out on the ocean, When storms toss it off the trail. That they might see my light and know just where to sail. Help me to show my light, Lord, So others can plainly see, Your love is real and good. Let them see that in me! Lord, I know that I'm not worthy, Of even feeling Your great love. But I know, too, that You love me. And will make me a place above! Lead me every day, dear Lord, For while I'm here I want to be, The lighthouse that sinners use, To draw them close to Thee! Be Careful With Words A farmer insulted his neighbor. Realizing his mistake, he went to the preacher to ask for forgiveness. The preacher told him to take a bag of feathers and drop them in the center of town. The farmer did as he was told. Then the preacher asked him to go and collect the feathers and put them back in the bag. The farmer tried but couldn't as the feathers had all blown away. When he returned with the empty bag, the preacher said, "The same thing is true about your words. You dropped them rather easily but you cannot retrieve them, so be very careful in choosing your words." Next time think before you choose your words . Freedom Keep Spreading Smiles If you are stressed... You will get pimples. If you cry... You will get wrinkles. So why don't you smile and get dimples? Keep smiling and keep spreading smiles. What is Inspiration in your Life? What is inspiration in your life? Family, Freedom, Music, Friends, and many more. So many things in your life. What inspires you? Author: Forever One Angel Friendship Friend in Trouble If a friend is in trouble, don’t annoy him by asking, ”If there is something I can do?” Think up something appropriate and do it. Hold the Hand In any relationship, the essence of trust is not in its bind, age, caste or creed. But in its bond. So hold the hand of the person whom you love rather than expecting them to hold yours. What Life Means Today Earlier, life meant: A winter evening, Four friends, Mild rain.., Four pegs of rum. Earlier, life meant: 100 bucks for petrol, two rusty old bikes.., an open road. Earlier, life meant: Maggi noodles, A hostel room, 3.25 a.m.., Sharing food.. and love. Earlier, life meant: Last minute exam preparations, One night, One book.., 8 duffers. Earlier, life meant: One girl, One number, 4 friends.., And a fight. Today life means: Old friends, Separate cities, Separate lives., And endless efforts to earn money & get peace. Today what you are looking in life.., Is probably that you lost in your way here. Remember old friends, old memories you shared, Reconnect, rejoice! Life as A Sea Treat your life as a sea, your heart as a seashore, and friends like waves. It never matters how many waves are there. What matters is, how many waves touched the seashore. That’s Why We Need Friends We need friends for many reasons, all throughout the four seasons. We need friends to comfort us when we are sad, and to have fun with us when we are glad. We need friends to give us good advice. We need someone we can count on to treat us nice. We need friends because we are social in nature, and having friends makes us feel secure. We need friends to remember us once we have passed sharing memories that will always last. That’s why I need YOU! Some Friends Are Forever Sometimes in life, you find a special friend: someone who changes your life by being a part of it. Someone who makes you laugh until you can't stop; someone who makes you believe that there really is good in the world. Someone who convinces you that there is an unlocked door just waiting for you to open it. This is forever friendship.... When you're down, and the world seems dark and empty, your forever friend lifts you up in spirit and makes that dark and empty world suddenly bright and beautiful. Your forever friend gets you through the hard times, the sad times, the confused times. If you turn and walk away, your forever friend follows. If you lose you way, your forever friend guides you and cheers you on. Your forever friend holds your hand and tells you that everything is going to be okay. And if you find such a friend, you feel happy and complete, because you need not worry. You have a forever friend for life, Goals How to Succeed At Work and In Career 1. Don’t talk negatively about people behind their backs. If you gossip, people won’t confide in you. Mind your own business. 2. Try to work for someone who’ll challenge your powers.You’ll learn more in a year than 4 years of college. 3. Successful bosses have good communication skills. They learn from people, including their employees. 4. Work in such a way that makes your boss look good. It’s not flattery. 5. On downsizing, the first to go are those with few friends. Bosses prefer competent people whom they respect. 6. Dress for the job you want, not the one you have. Let your dress reflect professionalism. 7. Workout to get in good physical shape. Unless exceptionally skilled, the unhealthy are at a comparative disadvantage. 8. Personal integrity is crucial. Tell nothing but the truth. Bosses can forgive mistakes but if you lie, you’re gone. 9. Be on time. Try to arrive few minutes early. It saves you from stress. You’ll be much relaxed & work better. 10. Strive your best to keep a deadline. If you cannot meet it, then apologize & ask for an extension 11. Don’t take things personally. If some people are unhappy with you, it’s their problem. But always strive to give your best. 12. If you must correct someone, don’t get personal about it. Do it never in front of others. 13. Spend some time alone everyday. What’s the mission of my life? What do I want to be? And how to go about it. 14. As you move along Plan A of your career, maintain a Plan B as well — an alternative course to rely 15. Always remember that the secret of success is passion. Always think big. Spread love & joy. You’ll have blissful years ahead. Don't Repent In Life When you really need something, it will go away from you. Try to catch it. You will not get it again, if you let it go now. If you didn't try, then don't repent. Because you didn't try, when you had the chance to hold it... Let Me Do It Now I expect to pass through this world, but once; Any good thing therefore that I can do, or any kindness that I can show to any fellow creature, let me do it now; Let me not defer or neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again. Helping You Make a Difference Don't spend you precious time asking 'Why isn't the world a better place?' It will only be time wasted. The question to ask is 'How can I make it better?' To that there is an answer. Author: Leo F. Buscaglia Every Deed Counts You can easily judge the character of others by how they treat those who can do nothing for them or to them. If you have been telling others - how good your character is? Ask yourself, judge it for yourself - What good that you have done for others who cannot do any good for you? Make difference to all the lives you touch. When you build your character, every deed counts! Learning Nobody Is Perfect Each of us has our own unique flaws. We're all cracked pots. It's the cracks and flaws that make our lives interesting and rewarding. You've to accept people as they are and then look for the good in them. Nobody is perfect! "life & living" Sweet Inspirations for All A nice collection of Sweet and Cute Quotes about Life & Living. Author: georgeijk Love Knew I Loved You My eyes could see you My heart could feel you My breath could sense you I knew I loved you Before I met you Look at the Brighter Side We human beings are such small creatures. So don't be too worried about everything, treasure every moment, do what you wish to do. Broaden your view, broaden your mind. Don't worry too much about things that are bothering you. Do treasure your loved ones, live safely and peacefully. Always be happy to welcome the coming of the new day... Enjoy the sunshine... Always look at the brighter side of things. Pain I Cried Over You I saw your face today, In the face of a stranger But when I looked again, You were not there anymore I heard your voice today, In the middle of a crowd I turned around to listen, But did not hear a sound I felt your touch today, In the blowing wind I clung to that moment, Held it to its end I cried over you today, Drowned in my own sorrow Then I came to realize, There is always a tomorrow Let Me Know Now If you are ever going to love me; love me now. While I can know the sweet and tender feelings from which true affections flows. Love me now while I am living. Do not wait until I am gone. To have those sweet words chiseled in marble on ice-cold stone. If you have tender thoughts of me, please let me know now. Not when I am not there. Passion Dance to Inspire, Inspire to Dance Dance can be amazing form of Inspiration, this video tells you why. Think Different Think Different advertisement from Apple showcasing the greatest leaders of our times who thought differently and made a difference to this world. Inspiring video from Apple which itself is an inspiring brand. Author: Apple Advt think different, attitude, leaders, passion, life, Learning success, character, risk, living, experience People Feel Every Moment of Life Life is like a rainbow, Good from a distance as you enjoy; But try to capture it, And you have nothing to capture. Don't try to capture life, Feel every moment you live. Take Each Day As It Comes People lose their health to make money; then lose their money to restore their health. By thinking anxiously about the future, they forget their present such that they live neither for the present nor the future. They live as if they will never die, and they die as if they have never lived. Take each day as it comes, and live each day to the fullest. "Peformance" Work Smart and Rest Smart Once there were a group of man - a young hot-blooded guy and a big number of old folks, doing timber job in a jungle (i.e. chopping down trees). This young chap is very hard working. He always continues to work through his break time and complains that those old folks were wasting time, having to break few times a day to drink and chat. As times goes by, this young guy noticed that even though he worked thru’ break time and hardly took a rest… those old folks are chopping the same amount of trees as he did and sometimes did more than he did. It was as if those old folks work thru’ the break time as he did. So he decided to work harder the next day…unfortunately the results were even worse. One day, one of the old folk invited him for a drink during their break time. That young guy refused and said he has no extra time to spend! Then the old man smiled to him and said It was just a waste of effort to keep chopping trees without re-sharpening your knife. Sooner or later you will give up or be so exhausted as you have spent too much energy. Suddenly the young man realised that actually during break times while those old folks were having a chat, they were also resharpening their knife at the same time! And that’s how they can chop faster than him and yet spending lesser time! The old man said what we need is efficiency by making use of our skill and ability intelligently. Only then can we have more times to do other things. Otherwise you will always keep saying … I have no time! Leave Your Mark So many people pass through this world without creating single astounding thing. Make your presence on this World. Leave your Mark! Author: HelpYouSurvive.com character, winning, time, performance, attitude, Success "Planning" The Big Rocks of Life One day, an expert in time management was speaking to a group of business students and, to drive home a point, used an illustration those students will never forget. As he stood in front of the group of high-powered overachievers he said, “Okay, time for a quiz?”, and he pulled out a one-gallon, wide-mouth Mason jar and set it on the table in front of him. He also produced about a dozen fist-sized rocks and carefully placed them, one at a time, into the jar. When the jar was filled to the top and no more rocks would fit inside, he asked, “Is this jar full?”. Everyone in the class yelled, Yes! The time management expert replied, “Really?”. He reached under the table and pulled out a bucket of gravel. He dumped some gravel in and shook the jar causing pieces of gravel to work themselves down into the spaces between the big rocks. He then asked the group once more, “Is the jar full?” By this time the class was on to him. “Probably not”, one of them answered. Good! He replied. He reached under the table and brought out a bucket of sand. He started dumping the sand in the jar and it went into all of the spaces left between the rocks and the gravel. Once more he asked the question, “Is this jar full?” “No!” the class shouted. Once again he said, well! Then he grabbed a pitcher of water and began to pour it in until the jar was filled to the brim. He looked at the class and asked, “What is the point of this illustration?” One eager student raised his hand and said, “The point is, no matter how full your schedule is, if you try really hard you can always fit some more things in it!”. “No”, the speaker replied, that’s not the point. “The truth is, this illustration teaches us that if you don’t put the big rocks in first, you’ll never get them in at all.” “What are the ‘big rocks’ in your life, time with your loved ones, your faith, your education, your dreams, a worthy cause, teaching or mentoring others. Remember to put these ‘big rocks’ in first or you’ll never get them in at all.” So, tonight, or in the morning, when you are reflecting on this short story, ask yourself this question - What are the ‘big rocks’ in my life Then, put those in your jar first. "Quitting" You Must Not Quit Success is failure turned inside out. The silver tint of the clouds of doubt, and when you never can tell how close you are. It may be near when it seems a far; so stick to the fight when you’re hardest hit. It’s when things seem worst, you must not quit. Prove Your Worth There will be good days. And there will be bad days. There will be times when - you want to turn around, pack it up, and call it quits. Don’t give up at that time. Don’t Quit. It's an opportunity to prove your worth. I Will Not Quit Succeed in believing that you will not fail. Use diligence and determination to set your sail. When the weather is stormy and the waters are rough, In the moment of peril the strong get tough. Whenever life presses you down a bit. Stand up and shout, “I will not quit!” Before You Before you Speak,... Listen Before you Write,... Think Before you Spend,... Earn Before you Criticize,... Wait Before you Pray,... Forgive Before you Quit,... Try Risk Life Is a Risk Life is a Risk, as much for us as it was for many successful people like Michael Jordan, Thomas Edison, Walt Disney, Abraham Lincoln, Beatles and others. If you never failed, you never Lived! Author: Bluefishtv.com Self Getting Over Problems If you can't get through the mountain, go around it. If you can't go around it, go over it. If you can't go over it, sit down and ask yourself, if getting to the other side is all that important? If it is, set about digging a tunnel. For every problem, there are many solutions. Whatever the problems in life are, you have to find ways to get over it. Reading Yourself If you ever feel like knowing, how the people around look on you? See reflections on the faces of the people you meet; Read your images from their eyes. All the faces in the world are mirrors. You just have to learn how to read them. Sorrow Value Life and know how Lucky You are This short video film was presented at the 56th Berlin International Film Festival on the theme - Food, Taste and Hunger. Watch this completely and it makes us feel how lucky we are to have our life and we should value life and all that we have. Brighter Tomorrows Never stop caring about the little things in life, Never stop dreaming or give in to strife. Never stop building bridges that lead to promising tomorrows, Never stop trying or give in to sorrows. Never stop smiling and looking forward to each new day, But most of all my friend... Never stop shining in your own special way. Never forget that all storms can clear. The grayest sky can turn pure blue. Remember, brighter tomorrows are near... Time Clock of Life The clock of life is wound only once. No man has the power to tell just when the hands will stop. At late or early hour. Now is the only time you own. Live, love, toil with a will. Place no faith in time. For the clock may soon be still. The Time is Now If there was ever a time to dare, to make a difference, to embark on something worth doing, IT IS NOW. Not for any grand cause, necessarily... but for something that tugs at your heart, something that's your inspiration, something that's your dream. You owe it to yourself, to make your days here count. "Truth" Do Not Hurt Yourself One night a snake while it was looking for food, entered a carpenter’s workshop. The carpenter, who was a rather untidy man, had left several of his tools lying on the floor. One of them was a saw. As the snake went round and round the shop, he climbed over the saw, which gave him a little cut. At once, thinking that the saw was attacking him, he turned around and bit it so hard that his mouth started to bleed. This made him very angry. He attacked again and again until the saw was covered with blood and seemed to be dead. Dying from his own wounds, the snake decided to give one last hard bite then turned away. The next morning the carpenter was surprised to find a dead snake on his doorstep. Lesson to Learn: Sometimes in trying to hurt others, we only hurt ourselves. Times in Our Lives There will be times in all of our lives where we're treated very harshly and unfair. And no matter how hard we look for the justice we find that it just isn't there. When we're offended and in pain, our normal response is to retaliate and somehow repay. For we want that person to see how it feels to have the heartache we're feeling that day. But as natural as it seems to want to get even it's the opposite of what God says is true. For He is desiring that His servants be different and be God-like in all that we do. As incredible as it sounds, He wants us to repay them with a blessing instead of more pain. And He will give us the power we need to be kind and the strength we need to refrain. We have to trust Him and fully believe Him Knowing His ways truly are best. We have to be encouraged knowing He saw the injustice and let Him give us comfort and rest. The person who offends us is not declared innocent by the kindness we place on their head. But God takes all the heartache retaliation would bring us and gives us a blessing instead. " Unity" Unity is Strength - You Can Make Difference This video is a Times of India campaign Lead India to promote Unity. Superb video shows - no matter how small you are, who you Are - You Can Make A Difference. Your Attitude can move others. Author : Times of India - Lead India Open Gates of World We are all inventors. Each sailing out on a voyage of discovery. Each guided by a private chart, of which there is no duplicate. The world is all gates, all opportunities. All you have to do is… decide which one you want to explore. Life Is a Bright Sky Life is like a bright sky; and clouds represent instances of unhappy times. Sometimes the clouds are so dark; It’s hard to remember the sun still shines. Be patient. The light will return. It’s just waiting for an opportunity to peek through. Devote Yourself So many people walk around with a meaningless life. They seem half-sleep, even when they’re busy doing things they think are important. This is because they’re chasing the wrong things. 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